self-loathing

noun

self-loath·​ing ˌself-ˈlō-ṯẖiŋ How to pronounce self-loathing (audio)
: loathing of oneself : self-hatred
acting out of fear and self-loathing
… the idea that the self-absorption and egotism of the narcissist are a pose to mask their opposite: a deep well of self-loathing and low self-esteem.Jeffrey Kluger
self-loathing adjective
… his life as a self-loathing sensualist, an incautious but easily damaged artist … A. L. Kennedy
… stars as a self-loathing English writer who writes Hollywood sitcoms for his actress wife … Giselle Benatar

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Huda is already wallowing in self-loathing after the challenge, but Chelley will not hear Huda’s apology right now or ever because this was a gross betrayal of the sisterhood. Kathleen Walsh, Vulture, 2 July 2025 There are heavy emotions in every song, which she’s said stem in part from a breakup, an eating disorder and general anxiety and self-loathing; there are references to punching mirrors, stage fright, ego death, obsessing over body weight, even bodily functions. Jem Aswad, Variety, 27 June 2025 There’s rage and violence, self-loathing and self-sabotage. Book Marks june 12, Literary Hub, 12 June 2025 As Angie's self-loathing grew louder, the house began to change. Zackery Cuevas, PC Magazine, 8 June 2025 See All Example Sentences for self-loathing

Word History

First Known Use

1635, in the meaning defined above

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The first known use of self-loathing was in 1635

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“Self-loathing.” Merriam-Webster.com Dictionary, Merriam-Webster, https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/self-loathing. Accessed 20 Jul. 2025.

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